A Letter From A Father To His Little Girl

It can not be written in a book what a father can teach his little girl, but on her heart it is clear. A father who is present in his daughter’s life and emphasizes the signs of love is something very special. His tenderness adds beauty and illusion to his little girl’s life as she grows.

Something we all know is having a child fills us with dreams and expectations. But  as time goes on, we discover that things are not always easy. Raising a child has its challenges. It is full of commitments  and responsibilities that require constant focus and sacrifice.

Many of the dreams we had in the past may seem to evaporate into thin air. But we never lose the desire to go after new dreams that correspond to the hopes and needs of our children.

Today at  “Børnenesverden “,  we will talk about these hopes and dreams. A father should not only have them in mind, but also live them out.

This is without a doubt something that many of the fathers out there already do. They are an undeniable part of their little girl’s life. In the future, his little girl will become a great woman thanks to their fathers.

It is not enough just to tell: I am your father and you are my little girl. You have to show it

Being a father is easy. In fact, it may be the easiest thing in the world. A good father knows from the beginning that this title will be obtained over time and must be demonstrated constantly. A father should be close to his daughter and be the person she can trust and look up to.

• Dad is there for all the new words and every time they fall when his little girl learns to explore the world.

• Dad is like a big child, she can play with. But it’s not just about fun and trouble. Fathers also guide, care for, and counsel their daughters. Fathers need to act like mature, brave and happy adults who love themselves and  above all love their daughters.

A father also has his sensitive side. He will show it to his daughter by putting herself in her shoes. He will understand her and  make an effort to feel her needs. He will try to see things from her point of view, even if it seems silly at times .

He wants to do all this because he knows it’s the best he can give her. By doing so, he gets the most important title of his entire life: “Father”.

I will keep what I promise you

If a father tells her he will always be there for her, it must be kept. If he later makes her feel that she is not the first priority, she may begin to believe that the world around her is untrustworthy. She will see the world as something painful, and she will see promises as things that come and go.

A responsible father understands that keeping what you promise is a priority.

I want to teach you to be strong and brave, not just to be my little princess

A good father knows well that in this world, it is not beauty that makes you happy. Of course, your little girl is the most beautiful and perfect you have ever seen.

But a father must teach his daughter to be strong and courageous. He must encourage her to fight for her dreams.

A father wants his daughter to be able to defend herself, speak for herself and stand up for her opinions.

He will help her live by  her  values. Dad wants to be a daily guide and lay the foundation for a healthy self-esteem. He will guide her in the lessons that allow her to discover the world around her.

He will teach her that pure happiness comes from the heart and not from a beautiful face.

I want to teach you not to be afraid

During the first years of life, Dad will be the superhero who fights nightmares, monsters and the insecurities that come when she takes her first steps or starts school.

But little by little, day by day,  Dad will start guiding with his advice. He will remove his daughter’s fears by helping her make good decisions. He will give her the courage and willpower to achieve her daily goals. And get through the border of doubt and uncertainty.

You will be the love of my life, but I will set you free when you find your love

It has always been said that no man can be good enough for father’s little girl. But  a good father knows when to give his daughter the freedom to find her own way. She will be able to choose the people she wants in her life, even if she sometimes makes mistakes. These mistakes she will be able to remember for the rest of her life.

There will be no reproach when she makes these mistakes. The door at home will always be open. Dad will always understand, will always be close and will always remind her that love is a journey that is always worth it. But,  she needs to know how to choose the right one and never forget how much she is worth.