4 Books To Educate Your Children About Emotional Intelligence

As mothers and fathers,  we have an infinite wealth of psychopedagogical resources available. Learning from this can help us meet the needs of all our children.

Of course, this does not mean that we should blindly believe everything we are told. We do not have to apply every single approach or theory.

It simply means reflecting on them and making use of those that fit the needs of our family.

With this in mind, it is safe to say that the concept of ‘ emotional intelligence’ has revolutionized personal growth, education and psychology  in general since the publication of Daniel Goleman’s groundbreaking book on the subject in the 1990s.

Parents should be aware of this theory and its implications, which allow us to make our children happier and more balanced.

Today at B ørnenes Verden ,  we take a look at four interesting books on this topic that you will probably find useful.

1. Building Emotional Intelligence: Techniques for Cultivating Inner Strength in Children (Linda Lantieri and Daniel Goleman)

Daniel Goleman explains that  by educating our children emotionally in the present, we offer them a brighter future. This simple, clear and general practical book provides parents with the concepts and tools needed to achieve this.

One of the most interesting things about this book is that it provides practical guidance and an audio CD.

2. 200 Ways to Raise a Boy’s Emotional Intelligence (Will Glennon)

This is a truly sensational book. The author constantly emphasizes the value of love, support and trust as an educational touchstone.

The emotional resources and strategies we give to our sons should help them become respectful and sensitive people. People who are able to know and value themselves, take care of their own self-esteem and respond with empathy to those around them.

This book offers interesting tips for teachers, grandparents and family friends as well as parents. A valuable resource for the daily upbringing of children.

3. What to do when you are scared and worried: A guide for children (James J. Crist)

Is your son or daughter one of those kids who seems to be scared of everything?

Many little ones go through a phase where shadows seem to hide behind every corner.

New fears come: water, darkness, what’s under the bed or in the closet, fear of talking to new people, clowns, riding the train…

This is a normal process. But  the way we respond is the key to helping our children cope with these situations.

James J. Crist, the author of the book, is a psychologist specializing in infant trauma. He has many years of experience in helping the little ones to understand, rationalize and overcome their fears.

Another plus is that kids can read this book too. It will even help them find answers to questions as complex and as common as the threat of terrorism.

The Great Book of Emotions (Mary Hoffman and Ros Asquith)

If your child is four or older, there is no doubt about it: this book is for you. The book begins by asking children a simple question: “How are you today?”

The Great Book of Emotions  continues to explore emotions such as happiness, sadness, boredom, interest, and other emotions. Its simple phrases  encourage even very young children to learn to identify and talk about their emotions.

This form of communication is without a doubt the best tool for promoting self-awareness on the one hand and emotional dialogue on the other. Both of these are essential for good family dynamics.

The book also contains interesting stories that parents can read to their children every night.

All in all, this is an engaging opportunity to give the little ones a good start with emotional intelligence.