You Are Your Baby’s Home – His Magical Universe

You’re your baby’s home. His small and magical universe. You are his source of nourishment, his refuge, and his infinite supply of love. You are everything to your child. You’re your baby’s home .

At the same time, thanks to your child, your life overflows with joy, hope, dreams and feelings that you have never felt before.

According to a work published by the scientific journal “LiveScience”, motherhood is unique and unique for many reasons.

It happens so often that most of the time we do not realize how many changes take place inside us when we become mothers. Our bodies, our brains, and even our way of looking at the world, are changing.

It is very important to remember that becoming a parent is also a special time for men. Fathers often become sensitive during their partner’s pregnancy. This is because they now know that they will soon be holding a new life in their arms.

While it may seem strange, all of these events do not always bring us the joy and happiness that we might expect.

Fear during pregnancy

Mary Kimmel, who is the director of the Perinatal Psychiatry Inpatient Unit at the University of North Carolina at the Chapel Hill School of Medicine and a psychologist at the same institution, talks about this problem.

She states that many women experience fear during pregnancy. They ask themselves how far they are able to handle it all, and they fear for their personal and financial stability.

Sometimes they even worry about how long their relationship with the baby’s father will last or not. A mother may ask herself to what extent she and the baby can count on the support of family and friends.

The fact that we mean everything to our little child sometimes fills us with joy and amazement. Other times, this very same thought bothers us with worries and anxiety. You should know by now that this is normal, logical and even quite common.

Having a child is not just a huge responsibility. It involves bravery. That means you have to face life in the most difficult moments. For you are your baby’s home, his refuge, and his connection to the outside world.

I’m your baby, I was formed inside you, I feel your feelings… So do not be afraid

Do not let your fears and insecurities weigh your heart down. The stress we sometimes experience as mothers reaches all the way to the peaceful environment of the womb. The cortisol in our blood impregnates the amniotic fluid that surrounds our developing babies.

It is not just the food we eat that affects a growing fetus. What you feel, what you experience, the times you laugh and the times you cry reach your baby like an echo. They are like invisible nutrients and caresses that accompany your baby throughout pregnancy all the way.

So remember, mom: your baby wants you to be happy. He wants you to wake up every day filled with dreams, ideas and hopes. Your baby wants you to be ready and eager to take on new challenges.

Your child knows who you are; that you are brave and able to take on everything that comes your way. All he sees is a beautiful woman who knows what she wants and what she does not want for her beloved child.

Never forget the importance of taking care of yourself and nurturing your own emotions and your psychological well-being. Now that you are caring for yourself, you are giving yourself the opportunity to give your baby the best.

You’re your baby’s home – you always will be

It is often said that we carry our children in the womb for 9 months, in our arms for 3 years and in our hearts forever. 

You are your child’s home. That was true back in time, and it’s true now. That mentality does not make you overprotective, nor does it make the mother-child bond toxic.

For the wisest kind of home, is that where the doors are always open. It is a home where residents can come and go whenever they want. And at the same time, they are always welcome to return.

But as parents, we need to keep in mind that this home is never more important than when our children are young. It is in these early years that the band needs to be built. 

This first phase of your baby’s life is often called the external pregnancy, which lasts for several years after birth. 

Density and love through life

Babies need our physical density more at this stage than at any other time in their lives. Our skin, our caresses and our words create an invisible womb that houses our babies as they continue to grow.

You’re your baby’s home. And when the time comes, our children will step out into freedom, independence and movement.

Never forget: Even if your child can’t put it into words, you mean everything to him. You are his source of nourishment, his warmth, the womb in which he falls asleep, and the breast on which he grows and matures.

So take care of yourself and make it a priority. Be happy, brave and build yourself into the person your child loves and deserves.